I cannot resist the urge to reply to this question with another question:
if sex came first would anyone be as motivated to date afterwards or rather would sex be considered " the date"?
although I probably would not be alone in preferring the sex first, I also think that the process of a relationship should not be underminded ! It is my opinion, depending on the length of time two people have been dating that having sex before the date would undermine this process unless my date and I, for example, have already been dating for a long time and we both felt comfortable about it.
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