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justinor123
collingswood, New Jersey USA

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Posted: Aug 17, 2008, 8:48 PM EST

heres a quetion that i hope will have many different opinions, Why is it that sex come after the date instead of before it. And which would u rather have come first and why? dancing banana





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Funaman
Hamilton, New Jersey USA

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Posted: Sep 25, 2008, 2:43 AM EST

I cannot resist the urge to reply to this question with another question:

if sex came first would anyone be as motivated to date afterwards or rather would sex be considered " the date"?

although I probably would not be alone in preferring the sex first, I also think that the process of a relationship should not be underminded ! It is my opinion, depending on the length of time two people have been dating that having sex before the date would undermine this process unless my date and I, for example, have already been dating for a long time and we both felt comfortable about it.cheers





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DoznEggs
Any town, New Jersey USA

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Posted: Nov 18, 2008, 12:40 PM EST

justinor123 wrote:
heres a quetion that i hope will have many different opinions, Why is it that sex come after the date instead of before it. And which would u rather have come first and why?


Because you don't have sex with just anybody that you meet. You Date someone for a while to see if you're compatible. Ever heard of self-gratification?

Another question to be posed? Would you really want to marry a woman who is willing to have sex on the first date?

Doesn't sound like she'd have much self-respect, and it doesn't sound like the man would have much respect for her either.

JMO





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